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Friday, September 30, 2011

ALLIGATORS IN EVERY SWAMP


“A man does what he must - in spite of personal consequences, in spite of obstacles and dangers and pressures - and that is the basis of all human morality.” ~Winston Churchill

“Courage and perseverance have a magical talisman, before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish into air.” ~John Quincy Adams
 

“If the fisherman and the hunters feared alligators, then there would be no recreation in the swamp.” Far from being an over broad generalization, the speaker was simply making the point that motivation overcomes perceived obstacles. While it is wise to mitigate risk—especially the risk of being overtaken by an alligator during a hunting trip—as Leaders we cannot wait until all obstacles have been removed before proceeding.

There are “alligators in every swamp.” The alligators are the obstacles and the swamp is the arena in which we are operating. While our ultimate objective might be to rid the swamp of all alligators (perhaps by “draining the swamp”), in the immediate term we must be able to effectively lead our teams, serve our clients and meet or exceed our organization’s objectives.

On a personal leadership level, one must be able to identify the potential or known alligator—perhaps a rival—and develop strategies to effectively collaborate with the individual when necessary (perhaps even daily) and to leave the alligator well enough alone the remainder of the time. Over time, trust may strengthen as the alligator comes to regard you as a non-predator, and a relationship may very well blossom.

At the team leadership level, we are well-served to anticipate the obstacles that may arise in resource allocation, miscommunication, diverse skill sets and personalities, etc. Upon taking inventory of each team member, whether via personality/behavioral testing or objective observation, develop individuals and assign roles to maximize the unique qualities that each member of the team possesses and executes well. As team membership changes, re-assess and re-assign as you deem effective.

When reviewing the swamp at the organizational level, we must begin with our mission. What outcomes have we committed to achieving to fulfill our mission? Much like the dedicated hunter that braves the presence of alligators to nonetheless enter the fertile swamp, we as Leaders must acknowledge with certainty and optimism that although we will encounter obstacles in our path to achieve the outcomes, we shall not fall to those obstacles.

Marketplace competitors, government regulation, loss of key executives, etc. always have been and will continue to be present as we pursue our mission. Our commitment to set and achieve identifiable and measurable personal, team and organizational outcomes must supersede any tendency toward hesitation or retrenchment. Acknowledging and neutralizing the alligators in our swamp quickly will enable us to lead our teams to focus solely upon those misson-driven outcomes.

Leave it to others less committed and less passionate (rivals, competitors, naysayers) to delay or to stay home and miss an abundant day of fishing in the swamp. Lead the way!

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Authentic You

When do you smile the most? What makes you laugh? When do you feel most proud?...When are at peace?

Closing a deal. Sharing a story with your husband. Cheering your son's basketball team. Watching the sun rise or set over a body of water.

The answers will be as unique and as plentiful as the number gathered in any one setting. Personality, preferences, and environment will certainly color your response. There is no "right of wrong", no "good or better." But the common thread will be authenticity.

At those moments when we are honoring our inner impulses, our inner drive, our inner joy, our inner peace --that is when we are our authentic selves. Sounds simple enough. We generally don't intend to put on a front for ourselves, our loved ones, our Creator. Why would we?

Recently, a woman shared with me that when she exited her vehicle at her workplace each day, she felt she was putting on a uniform. Figuratively speaking, she donned an "acceptable garment" and left a portion of herself in the car before walking across the parking lot to enter the building. Her admission wasn't uncommon. Many of us are conditioned at one time or another to conform our words, our actions, our style, our activities and interests to fulfill some spoken --or unspoken-- request.

Certainly there will be situations when we should consciously choose to adopt a moderate tone so as not to diminish the objective of our presence. Hence, I continue to recommend not showing up for corporate job interviews dressed like the Crocodile Hunter. But more often than not, we allow others to choose (influence, dictate, suggest...) when we will not merely moderate ourselves, but actually submit and suppress our authentic selves. For whose benefit are we suppressing ourselves (i.e. who stands to gain)?

Today's Question:

Am I choosing to be authentic in all of my interactions, or am I allowing others to choose for me?